Celebrating 25 Years of Comfort, Hope & Support
If there’s anything we need more of in 2021, it’s stories that connect us and bring warmth to our hearts. In celebration of Tu Nidito’s 25th anniversary, we’ll be hosting interviews here on the Tu Nidito Blog highlighting some of the amazing members of our community. To kick off this special segment, we’ll hear from Pam Fick, an alumna of our bereavement program and current volunteer group facilitator.
What’s your name and where are you from?
My name is Pam Fick and I have lived here in Tucson for 33 years so this is home. I have also lived in Michigan, Kentucky, Colorado, and New Mexico.
Tell us how you first became involved with Tu Nidito!
I am a nurse and currently work as nursing faculty at the University of Arizona College of Nursing for our accelerated Master’s Entry Program. I am also in school to obtain my Doctor of Nursing Practice degree. I am married to my husband (22 years this March) and have a son who is 12. We have a terrier-mutt named Jack and an African tortoise named Mack.
I became involved with Tu Nidito when we participated as a family after the death of my mother-in-law. I was so impressed with the organization and the amazing work that goes into supporting the kids I asked about volunteering after we closed.
What is your role as a volunteer?
I am an English-Speaking Adult Group Facilitator. Just as Littles, Middles and Teens have peer-to-peer support groups, caregivers and parents need a similar space to work through their grief. I have worked with a few different Adult Groups.
What makes you want to volunteer in this way?
Tu Nidito is a special place with amazing people all supporting one another through some very difficult times. Although the circumstances that bring us to Tu Nidito are very sad, there is so much joy that comes from support groups. Each family member has a space to share their story in a meaningful way.
The adult participants are often wearing many hats and doing so many things; giving them a place where they can just focus on themselves and their kids for an hour is really powerful. It’s touching to hear stories of their special people and also how they are working through their own grief process. There are many tears but there are also many smiles and laughter. Also, seeing the participants lift one another up and support one another is awesome. It’s truly a privilege to be part of the groups.
Tell us a story about a memorable interaction or experience you had at Tu Nidito.
I once had to “close” from one of my adult groups because I had to switch which days I volunteer due to my schedule. The kindness and comments from the participants about how I impacted them during my time with the group were so touching.
I felt honored to be a part of what they share during the group and they were telling me how much I touched them! It made me realize the impact we have as volunteers and that just being present and holding space for people can really make such a difference.
I also have many great memories of bringing my son when we attended as a family. He would always connect with the volunteers and have so much fun-all while feeling safe to share feelings. It really helped him process and navigate his grief.
Thank you, Pam, for sharing your Tu Nidito Story! To learn more about the programs Pam participated in and now facilitates, click here.
Related Posts
On support group nights at Tu Nidito, you’ll often find Ariella Duarte laughing with children in the Littles and Middles groups, kneeling beside them [...]
One evening in 2007, Nelson Daou heard sounds drifting over the wall of his home. On the other side, children at Tu Nidito were [...]
I had the opportunity to talk with Dina about her connection to Tu Nidito and the why behind her volunteer commitment. She is simply [...]
